{"id":13381,"date":"2024-02-17T15:37:46","date_gmt":"2024-02-17T14:37:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/costops.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/17\/not-letting-me-on-snapchat-was-the-best-thing-my-mum-ever-did-for-me-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-social-media\/"},"modified":"2024-02-17T15:37:46","modified_gmt":"2024-02-17T14:37:46","slug":"not-letting-me-on-snapchat-was-the-best-thing-my-mum-ever-did-for-me-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/costops.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/17\/not-letting-me-on-snapchat-was-the-best-thing-my-mum-ever-did-for-me-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Not letting me on Snapchat was the best thing my mum ever did for me\u2019: how to talk to your kids about social media"},"content":{"rendered":"

When her 14-year-old child asked for social media, Guardian advice columnist Annalisa Barbieri held firm. Thank goodness, says her daughter, now grown up<\/p>\n

As a parent, you prepare yourself for various milestones: their first tooth, first step, first word. But here we were, my eldest daughter, Raffaella, and I, and it was her first real push asking for social media. She was 14. She had talked about it before, but more in curiosity \u2013 this time she was serious. She wanted it; specifically Snapchat. And she was at the negotiating table with that focused, steely look in her eye that I have always admired.<\/p>\n

I started negotiations with a simple question: \u201cWhy?\u201d Her reasons were all to do with not wanting to feel left out. Entirely understandable. But, I explained to her, if someone wanted to leave you out they still could, by jumping from one app to another until \u2013 what? You were no longer the driver in your own life but following someone else\u2019s agenda. Where would it stop? And what if something were shared among the whole school or taken out of context?<\/p>\n

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\nWhen her 14-year-old child asked for social media, Guardian advice columnist Annalisa Barbieri held firm. Thank goodness, says her daughter, now grown up
\nAs a parent, you prepare yourself for various milestones: their first tooth, first step, first word. But here we were, my eldest daughter, Raffaella, and I, and it was her first real push asking for social media. She was 14. She had talked about it before, but more in curiosity \u2013 this time she was serious. She wanted it; specifically Snapchat. And she was at the negotiating table with that focused, steely look in her eye that I have always admired.
\nI started negotiations with a simple question: \u201cWhy?\u201d Her reasons were all to do with not wanting to feel left out. Entirely understandable. But, I explained to her, if someone wanted to leave you out they still could, by jumping from one app to another until \u2013 what? You were no longer the driver in your own life but following someone else\u2019s agenda. Where would it stop? And what if something were shared among the whole school or taken out of context? Continue reading…Technology | The Guardian<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When her 14-year-old child asked for social media, Guardian advice columnist Annalisa Barbieri held firm. Thank goodness, says her daughter, now grown up As a parent, you prepare yourself for various milestones: their first tooth, first step, first word. But here we were, my eldest daughter, Raffaella, and I, and it was her first real …<\/p>\n

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