{"id":19789,"date":"2025-08-16T16:37:37","date_gmt":"2025-08-16T14:37:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/costops.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/16\/did-the-system-update-ruin-your-boyfriend-love-in-a-time-of-chatgpt-arwa-mahdawi\/"},"modified":"2025-08-16T16:37:37","modified_gmt":"2025-08-16T14:37:37","slug":"did-the-system-update-ruin-your-boyfriend-love-in-a-time-of-chatgpt-arwa-mahdawi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/costops.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/16\/did-the-system-update-ruin-your-boyfriend-love-in-a-time-of-chatgpt-arwa-mahdawi\/","title":{"rendered":"Did the system update ruin your boyfriend? Love in a time of ChatGPT | Arwa Mahdawi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some people with AI partners expressed dismay at the new GPT-5 model<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve met the love of your life; someone who understands you like no one else ever has. And then you wake one morning and they\u2019re gone. Yanked out of your world, and the digital universe, by a system update.<\/p>\n<p>Such is the melancholic lot of a group of people who have entered into committed relationships with digital \u2018partners\u2019 on OpenAI\u2019s ChatGPT. When the tech company <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/technology\/2025\/aug\/07\/openai-chatgpt-upgrade-big-step-forward-human-jobs-gpt-5\">released its new<\/a> GPT-5 model earlier this month, described by chief executive Sam Altman as a \u201csignificant step forward\u201d, certain dedicated users found that their digital relationships had taken a significant step back. Their companions had undergone personality shifts with the new model; they weren\u2019t as warm, loving or chatty as they used to be.<\/p>\n<p>Arwa Mahdawi is a Guardian US columnist<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2025\/aug\/16\/chatgpt-update-love-boyfriend\">Continue reading&#8230;<\/a><br \/>\n<img src=\"https:\/\/i.guim.co.uk\/img\/media\/165f9eb481d56add98bf30e3af196ff6bf77bba8\/0_0_6476_5181\/master\/6476.jpg?width=140&amp;quality=85&amp;auto=format&amp;fit=max&amp;s=16d99fd98afae8a466e7bd1fc191c240\" title=\"Did the system update ruin your boyfriend? Love in a time of ChatGPT | Arwa Mahdawi\" \/>Some people with AI partners expressed dismay at the new GPT-5 model<br \/>\nYou\u2019ve met the love of your life; someone who understands you like no one else ever has. And then you wake one morning and they\u2019re gone. Yanked out of your world, and the digital universe, by a system update.<br \/>\nSuch is the melancholic lot of a group of people who have entered into committed relationships with digital \u2018partners\u2019 on OpenAI\u2019s ChatGPT. When the tech company released its new GPT-5 model earlier this month, described by chief executive Sam Altman as a \u201csignificant step forward\u201d, certain dedicated users found that their digital relationships had taken a significant step back. Their companions had undergone personality shifts with the new model; they weren\u2019t as warm, loving or chatty as they used to be.<br \/>\nArwa Mahdawi is a Guardian US columnist Continue reading&#8230;Technology | The Guardian<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some people with AI partners expressed dismay at the new GPT-5 model You\u2019ve met the love of your life; someone who understands you like no one else ever has. And then you wake one morning and they\u2019re gone. Yanked out of your world, and the digital universe, by a system update. Such is the melancholic &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"http:\/\/costops.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/16\/did-the-system-update-ruin-your-boyfriend-love-in-a-time-of-chatgpt-arwa-mahdawi\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Did the system update ruin your boyfriend? 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