{"id":20795,"date":"2025-11-10T12:37:21","date_gmt":"2025-11-10T11:37:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/costops.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/10\/it-shows-such-a-laziness-why-i-refuse-to-date-someone-who-uses-chatgpt\/"},"modified":"2025-11-10T12:37:21","modified_gmt":"2025-11-10T11:37:21","slug":"it-shows-such-a-laziness-why-i-refuse-to-date-someone-who-uses-chatgpt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/costops.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/10\/it-shows-such-a-laziness-why-i-refuse-to-date-someone-who-uses-chatgpt\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018It shows such a laziness\u2019: why I refuse to date someone who uses ChatGPT"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s the ultimate ick: trying to form a deep, lasting connection with a person who outsources original thought<\/p>\n

It was a setting fit for a Nancy Meyers film. We were in Oregon wine country, in a rustic-chic barn that reeked of stealth wealth, for a friend\u2019s rehearsal dinner. \u201cThis venue is perfect,\u201d I told the groom-to-be. He leaned in as if to tell me a secret: \u201cI found it on ChatGPT.\u201d<\/p>\n

I smiled tightly as this man described using generative AI for the initial stages of planning the wedding. (They also hired a human wedding planner.) I responded politely. Inside, however, I resolved: if my future spouse came to me with wedding input courtesy of ChatGPT, there would be no wedding.<\/p>\n

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\nIt\u2019s the ultimate ick: trying to form a deep, lasting connection with a person who outsources original thought
\nIt was a setting fit for a Nancy Meyers film. We were in Oregon wine country, in a rustic-chic barn that reeked of stealth wealth, for a friend\u2019s rehearsal dinner. \u201cThis venue is perfect,\u201d I told the groom-to-be. He leaned in as if to tell me a secret: \u201cI found it on ChatGPT.\u201d
\nI smiled tightly as this man described using generative AI for the initial stages of planning the wedding. (They also hired a human wedding planner.) I responded politely. Inside, however, I resolved: if my future spouse came to me with wedding input courtesy of ChatGPT, there would be no wedding. Continue reading…Technology | The Guardian<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s the ultimate ick: trying to form a deep, lasting connection with a person who outsources original thought It was a setting fit for a Nancy Meyers film. We were in Oregon wine country, in a rustic-chic barn that reeked of stealth wealth, for a friend\u2019s rehearsal dinner. \u201cThis venue is perfect,\u201d I told the …<\/p>\n

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